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DEVISE A STRESS SIGNAL
Once you recognise the symptoms,
you can overcome rising tension by concentrating on becoming calm. Establish a warning
sign for yourself -- such as when your speech speeds up, or your breathing becomes shallow
-- as a signal that it's time to slow down.
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TURN TO BLUE, PINK OR GREEN
Each of these colours has the magical ability to instil calm in a troubled mind.
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When you pretend you are calm, and adopt the characteristics of a
calm person, you'll convince yourself you're calm in no time.
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GET PHYSICAL
Physical exertion counters the
negative effects of stress and helps you to feel good about yourself. Exercise for your
head's sake as well as your body's.
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Immerse in the moment
When you know how to live entirely in the moment,
you know how to become calm. Concentrate on everything you do -- doing it to the best of
your ability -- and you can work your way to becoming calm and fulfilled.
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Work at establishing order where you work and live.
Disorganisation is stressful - and constantly reminds you of all that remains to be done.
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Practise Politeness
Practise politeness, not for the benefit of others, but for the ennoblement of
yourself. It doesn't matter if the receivers reciprocate (which they usually will) or not
-- you will feel better for your niceness.
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People who garden know a natural way to relax.
Grow things of your own and experience this yourself.
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Visit a Wastepaper Bin
By shedding the information non-essentials of life, you remove the stresses and
frustrations of having loose ends.
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Look for the bright side
Sometimes it takes a little extra effort to be
positive and optimistic, but any time you spend in this pursuit pays off - over and over
again.
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SET THE PACE
Just as a group attitude or mood can influence the individual, a determined individual can
influence the group. By moving slowly, speaking calmly, you can spread a feeling of calm
within a group.
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Plan a Variation
Many stress problems are habitual. Plan a departure from your routine, taking on a new
activity -- several times a day -- and you'll be on the course to calm.
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